Monday, 24 May 2010

WELCOME TO 'LATELY GAY'


This is a community website dedicated to older gay men, and in particular, those who have come out in their middle or later years. "LG" is a first-stop help-point for those taking their 'baby steps' in the complicated world of the UK's gay scene - and beyond.

The gay community is a completely diverse mixture of ages, social backgrounds and family make-ups, but too often the focus of media coverage is concentrated on the 18-30 set. What about the guys who are only coming to terms with their true sexuality in their 40s, 50s or 60s upwards? Too often they can arrive feeling like they're late for the party and with hardly any formal or even informal support aimed at them. And all this, no doubt, in the turbulent wake of a marital break-up.

If this description strikes a chord with you and sums up where you find yourself at moment then, please, do come in and make yourself at home.
Regrettably, I am not in a position where I can blog with any regularity, but you'll find the initial content I generated acts as a stand-alone 'welcome pack' in it's own right.

Start your journey now with some of the attractions highlighted below ...


FEATURE INTERVIEW:
STEPHEN McKENNA

The LG Founder expands on his own experiences and how they've inspired him to create the LG space.





TALK TALK - THE GAY MEDIA: 40+ BLIND?
Is the gay media in danger of airbrushing older gay men off its' pages? Also ... 'How Gay Is Our World' & 'Gays The Word'





SHOUT SHOUT - KICKING OFF!Thinking the unthinkable - saying the unsayable. This is LG's free expression zone where kicking off and letting it all out are the order of the day: Enola Gays - an offensive label? Can you be an ungay gay? Is it porn or art?



HERE'S HOW TO ...
Handy tips for gay living you won't find in the Yellow Pages:

HERE'S HOW TO BE A HAPPY HOMO



HERE'S HOW TO GET A GRIP ON GAYDAR



MY GAY GODFATHER
Remembering the first gay people we knew and the ways in which they touched and shaped our lives.





ASK ARTHUR!!
LG's own Agony Uncle ARTHUR MARTHA licks his nib to pen wise words of wisdom in response to your questions and queries.






LG MOVIE HOUSE: "VICTIM"
Thanks to the unbounded wonder that is YOUTUBE we bring you an exclusive screening of VICTIM starring Dirk Bogarde & Sylvia Sym. Running at just 90 minutes it's a vivid depiction of illegal gay life in 1960s London and the very real threat of blackmail and intimidation faced by homosexuals at that time.

9 comments:

TonysTake! said...

Hi

I think that your idea on setting up this site is really positive and I completely agree with your comments about the gay scene being aimed at 18-30's. Although i fall into that age category, I do think that being gay isn't just a lifestyle choice of the young and beautiful (of which I consider myself neither!!!). Please keep it up - the gay scene needs people like you!!!!!!!

T xxx

Latelygay said...

Why thank you for that, Tony!

This is the site's first message of support and before we've even launched! So, it is doubly welcome!!

As I've been banging away with my hammer and chisel to carve out the site ... it occurred to me that I had the perfect description for people the condition of guys who've married only to the come out in their middle years - it has to be, 'The Gay Delay!' What else!

Lyndon said...

I found you in a posting on Micheal in Norfolk.

This will be a great blog for us "gray gays".

I have added you to my blog "LGBT Rainbow Links" under Retirement/Gay Gray Blogs.

Your's will be the first GGB.

The url is:
lgbtboomers2blogs.blogspot.com

Good luck. I for one will be reading.

Lyndon Evans
Artlyn Entertainment

daveincleveland said...

i found this site from my buddy michael in norfolk....thank you thank you....just recently divorced in mid 50's and now finally able to reconcile all the puzzle pieces about me this is a welcome add to my blog....keep it up buddy and thanks

Denis said...

It took me a good 40 years to admit that I was gay to myself. I am 55 and married and out to my wife for a year now, I have no idea where this will end up. I find that coming out is still something that has to happen every day.

Great idea for a site!

Denis

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Good luck with the site. It looks Fabulous!

Queers United said...

as a young gay guy i think its great that you are creating an inclusive space for our older friends.

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Kevin said...

Hi, I actually just started a blog on this very subject, http://gaylatebloomers.blogspot.com/ and then I found this site. I'm wondering if I should take my blog down, or leave it up as a complement to this one. I don't want to compete, but I think there needs to be blogs like these out there. Mine will probably be a lot less formal and is mostly just my thoughts. I'm glad I found Lately Gay and will be reading it faithfully from now on. Thanks for creating this blog!